Thanks for the compliment, Lee....actually I told DH that I have thrown in the towel on parties....after I was treated very rudely at the Big Kids' party (for family) I don't want to do it again.
Emmjean, a tea party is lots of fun for girls. I did that for my DD a couple of years ago. You can do it very inexpensively--sandwiches cut with cookie cutters, cupcakes, "tea" or juice in teapots....we bought those "color your own cups" with the paper insert at the craft store so each girl got to take home her teacup. We played guess how many teabags in the jar, drop the teabag into the cup (standing on a chair, cup on the floor), glove relay (put gloves on the next child in line, child being "gloved" cannot help) and the first line to go all down the row wins....I know that in our Party forum we have plenty of ideas here.
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