I have to smile when my "independent" ds, ddil, dgd who live next dr, seem to be over at our house more than their own.
I have to smile after ever hurricane that goes through our

town that the only thing they do to our place is rearrange my landscape.
I have to smile that dgd & I wait patiently while her dear blankie is in the
(we have to check on it often to make sure it's ok) only GiGi can do it.
That when she see my truck home on Fridays she knows that it's "our day" refuses to go to daycare, & poor ddil has to come over & ask every Friday-though dgd who's almost 3 & I tell her, Friday is our day, even if I'm going out of town, she goes with us (unless of course it's a private weekend for dh & I)
And my biggest smile is when the the dr says tha dh pressure in his chest is due to stress, coming from a family with heart disease, he tried to fight me on eating lowfat, no fried foods (or quite spraringly) I come from one too, & decided long ago that I never wanted to go through what my parents & dgp went through.
And the most conceited thing I smile about is that I have to show my dreaded driver lic. to prove how old I am.
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Whether it is art, gardening or a memory, create, create, create. This is not a dress rehearsal, enjoy, smile, love and forgive, life is just that short.