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07-19-2018, 06:12 AM
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So much has been happening and I didn't always have access to a computer. My older sister is now in remission from brain cancer. PTL!!! My mom is also in remission. PTL!!! DH is still fighting.
November we decided to go to Minnesota, I was able to get a great job, that was very busy and he was able to get great care at the VA. His treatment amplified the cold and he was miserable. Hateful, grumpy miserable. I left my job in June and we went back to TN, packed up the house and moved back to NC.
We are currently living with my parents and with their help we are making it. We are praying that our house in TN sells soon, so we can get a house of our own here in NC.
Good news is DH is back in treatment and the lull of us moving and his treatment schedule didn't effect him. I am truly thankful. I just found another job and will start Monday. Just in time, we had enough money to pay all our bills for two months and now is the time I start getting worried.
Cancer has killed our finances, but we will strive to get back to where we were, before the ugliness of cancer. I hate the worry but sometimes it gets so over the top I feel like a whinny baby.
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07-19-2018, 10:33 AM
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thanks for the update Bernice, very glad to hear about remissions for you mom and eldest sister, also that your husband has held his own, and my goodness what a bunch of moves! Take care as you do manage very well, god bless.
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07-19-2018, 02:58 PM
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What a stressful time for you Bernice. Please don't forget to take care of YOU so you can care for the rest of your family.
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07-19-2018, 04:29 PM
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Bernice, Been thinking about You. Happy everything worked out for your sister & mom. Sorry to hear about all the moving to different states. Glad your parents were there to help you both move back to NC.
Hopefully this year will get better for the Family! You are strong willed getting a job where ever you move to which gives strength to all who depend on you!
We are all sending prayers for You & Dh. that the house sells soon.
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02-21-2019, 10:42 AM
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Dh went home to the Lord on 2-5-19. My heart rejoices that he went with a smile, but I miss him every minute of the day. A room full of people and I am alone. I know it will take time, but I pray that cure for all cancers is out there, so no one has to go through this.
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So very sorry to hear this Bernice. Sending you hugs and loves and prayers.
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02-21-2019, 07:35 PM
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Bernice I am so sorry for your loss. I pray each day gives you a lighter heart.
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03-09-2019, 02:26 AM
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Hello Bernice, fighting the good fight is what I will remember of this. Many hugs I am sending to you, please take them, it will help! Much love, -Ellen
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03-14-2019, 10:59 PM
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Bernice, So sorry for your loss. My heart feels your pain! You did all you could for him as a loving wife. Please take care of yourself now He would want you too. Sending hugs & prayers for you. We are all here for you day or night to comfort you as friends & family.
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