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Old 06-03-2007, 06:45 AM
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If it were me, I would go to the ones that I can attend to show your future dil, that you support her. However, if you are unable to attend, let your future dil know that you are unable to attend and tell her that you hope that she has a wonderful time. I think that you are probably given the invitations out of respect because you are mother of the groom. Therefore, I don't think you are expected to bring a gift to any or all of the parties. I have given people gifts before and then were later invited to a party. I didn't bring an extra gift just because I was invited, but I attended to show support. At my DDs bacheloretter party/shower, I did not bring a gift becuase I had already given her and my future sil their gift. Nobody thought bad of me at all.

Good luck!
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