Natalie, I think that is a great idea because even if you never get him to agree to see a counselor, just you going will help you on how to deal with it. I'm glad you have a program through your work. I probably wouldn't care to share it with my family either. And it may hurt your DH later on down the line if he knows you shared it with family and may make him self-conscious about it with them. So I think that is a good idea too!! Good luck on your counseling and I hope you are lucky and get a good one!!!
Kathy
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