Thank-you Sugarspicenpuppytails for the kind words, my father has been gone now for 10 years so I am definetly out of the dark! I do treasure the time I had with him 5 months before he died....I wasn't living here at the time so I also sold my farmhouse, and moved too! Gee what stress!! Hindsight was I should of just closed up the house and returned when my dad passed, my Dh was just finishing up his chemo treatment and they didn't expect him to live either, but God had a different plan for him. My DH has been cancer free now for almost 12 years! Praise God! Funny how life changes!
janet