Tammy,
If you have a day care in your home you get paid right? If yes, then you have a JOB!
Tell that dh of yours that instesd of him going golfing anf bowling you will find work in a McD's or somewhere where they will let you work on those specific days and he can stay home with the kids, feed them dinner, get them bathed and ready for bed and then tuck them in. But make sure you get them into somekind of activity first so he can try to work that in too. LOL.
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