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Starting Down the
Trail on the Homeschool Journey

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You did it. You hauled the kids out
of school, collected their records and now, you are wagons ho! On your homeschool
journey, much like the pioneers who traveled west on the Oregon Trail. And,
the journey ahead may look just as terrifying as you stare out into the endless
horizon and wonder "what's out there."
It will be the greatest adventure of your life, for sure, as you rediscover
the wonder and joy of childhood, the fascinating brains of your offspring
and most likely, a few tidbits about yourself, like "wow, I can remember
algebra!"
From theory to practice is a pretty large hop; one of the toughest realities
is that YOU actually have to do the schooling. If you are sick, the class
has a day off, if you had a late night, the kids still need to take their
algebra test the next morning. Congratulations on your new full-time job!
Before you hope on your buckboard and push off, perhaps there are a few things
a seasoned pioneer might suggest for a safe and enduring journey.
Know your style: Since you will be doing the teaching, it is wise
to think about the things you enjoy, and do well. These will be your teaching
strengths. Are you a hands-on person? How about a reader? Do you like research
and exploring? In pondering cirriculum, find one that you will enjoy
implementing. I love to read, and found a cirriculum laden with scintillating
read-alouds, and real books for history and science. Our "class" spends hours
reading, dressing up, drawing, acting, reciting, coming up with new scenarios
and most of all discussing the rich stories from history. I hate, on the
other hand, science experiments. Our cirriculum has few, and those it does
have I turned over to my husband who now spends Saturday mornings messing
up the kitchen with the kids. The homeschooling world has a plethora of
cirriculum available - find one that sparks your interest and most likely
it with light a fire under your children as well.
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Don’t Overdo. Home-schoolers
may be the busiest children in the world. Not only do they study the three
R’s, but we, the teachers, in order to make sure they are well-rounded,
invariably add in at least one foreign language, piano lessons, sports, hobbies,
art class and kids clubs, as well as all the elective cirriculum the public
schools offer. Stress in children is increasing, and in part it has to do
with us cramming their lives full of activities and studies. As a mom, you
can’t possibly teach your children everything they do in public or private
schools -nor should you. Does an eight year old really need to have a health
cirriculum? Couldn't he be taught to eat right, keep himself clean and watch
out for strangers through the daily interaction with his parents? And don’t
tell me my second grader needs a computer classhe practically programmed
his own desktop at age seven!
Examine your lives and throw out the fluff. My advice: pick one or at most
two "extras" based on your child's interests. These aren't in cement-next
year she can take the ballet lessons, but this year soccer ought to do. She
will not, most likely, become a primadonna, or a Pele. But she will have
fun, in conquerable amounts. If she is falling asleep at the piano, (and
you beside her!) you know you're overdoing.
Simplify your Classroom - Organizing your child's place of study can
be as easy as getting a plastic dishpan and letting your child decorate it.
Or, you can invest in a desk, a bulletin board and learning posters for your
child's room. We even tried to put the classroom in a separate room in our
house, but soon realized that school always ended up around the kitchen table.
We read on the sofa, then move to the table. Each person has their "tub"
(including the teacher) in which all their supplies are kept, and when their
lessons are complete it is stashed in their closet and school is over. The
key is: the simpler it is to start school each day, the easier it will become.
Slow and Steady Record Keeping: This is the nitty gritty, and the
bumps that will either topple your wagon or teach you how to drive with a
firm hand. Many a brave pioneer has given up rather than face the onslaught
of record-keeping. It doesn't have to derail you. Our record-keeping has
evolved from elaborate teacher’s journals to a simple and cheap three ring
binder. A call to your local school, or to your state’s homeschooling
organization will tell you how detailed your records need to be. Go from
there. We type up our cirriculum list and snap it into the binder. Then,
we have a weekly "form" that I made on the computer. I fill it in daily and
add that at the end of the week to the binder with any worksheets or extra
papers. At the end of the year I label it and put it into storage. Done.
My friend Debbie keeps a spiral notebook on each child and journals their
daily activities per page. As the pioneers did, find the easiest place in
the river, and ford it, one step at a time.
The homeschooling journey is challenging, and at times rugged, but it doesn't
have to be tedious. Simplicity, an invigorating cirriculum and a workable
schedule will help you plow forward on your unforgettable journey to a wondrous
land of discovery--one that you and your children will never regret.
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