SanDansMom,
Don't know if this helps or not, but this is all I have saved so far regarding Fabric Softener. I currently use dryer sheets cut in half, but will be trying the liquid-on-towel (or sponge) method next.
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Fabric Softener:
I have been using an old dish towel as a fabric softener sheet. I pour a couple of capfuls of Downey on it and throw it in the dryer. It has taken over a year to go thru a bottle of (small) Downey fabric softener. I add more Downey about every 15 loads or just when I notice a little static. It helps to use a towel that is distinct from the other laundry. I use a pink towel, which is a one of a kind in our house.
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LAUNDRY FABRIC SOFTENER
http://www.thefrugalshopper.com/articles/softener.html
2-3 Cups Water
1 Cup Liquid Fabric Softener
Large Sponge
Combine water and liquid softener. Cut sponge in 1/2 and keep in liquid. When drying clothes, remove sponge, squeeze out excess liquid and place in dryer with clothes. When dry, just place sponge back in liquid to be used for next load.
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Homemade dryer sheets...
1. I got 2 free packets of Downey in [the] mail. I took an old crib sheet and cut it into squares about the size of my hand...maybe a little bit bigger. I put the squares into an old baby wipe container....you can use anything with a lid. Then I poured the 2 packets of fabric softener in and added about 1/2 cup of water. I used enough water to cover the squares. Then I just shook the container up. To use....Grab a square and squeeze out the excess and toss in the dryer.
2. I love the smell of Downy so I tried this using an old towel cut into squares. I then put them into a bowl with lid and half cap of downy and half cap of water. I let them soak for awhile then squeezed some of the excess out and hung them up to dry (I tried using them straight out of the container but that didn't work as well). I just throw 1 or 2 in the dryer when I dry my clothes. After they are done, I put them back in the solution or throw them in the washer with the clothes I'm washing and start all over again. I love this idea, thanks to all for the wonderful ideas!!