littlecmom, if I may, I'd like to interject something about nursing - since I-R-1
Check out all the programs around you. There are a number of ways to get into nursing.
LPN / LVN - Licensed Practical / Vocational Nurse - you are limited in what you can do, and the pay sucks rocks. But it takes about 1 year to complete.
ADN - Associates Degree in Nursing - you are qualified to sit the state board exam for RN when you finish. Takes about 2 years to complete. Pay is much better, and ability to advance is good.
BSN - Bachelor of Science in Nursing - takes 4 years, includes a college degree. Includes Public Health, so it opens that arena for you that is not included in most ADN programs. There are even more opportunities for advancement.
Back when I was in Utah, I helped develop a curriculum that was a "ladder." you could start and after the first 3-4 months, you were certified as a nursing assistant and would be hired by one of the local hospitals. Building on those courses, after 12 months you were qualified to sit for the LVN licensure.
Then you would be hired as an LVN - higher salary - and could then continue in the ADN program. After another 1 year, you were qualified to sit for the RN licensure.
Then you would be hired as an RN - still higher salary - and could continue, if you wished, in the BSN program. Following that, and building on the previous building blocks, you could continue in the MSN and PhD programs.
All of this curriculum was carefully designed so that nothing needed to be repeated, and each additional "rung" on the ladder was based on the rung(s) below.
I have no idea if this curriculum has continued, but I thought it was a wonderful concept!
Certainly, most uinversities with nursing programs have ways of granting credits for previous studies and experiences so that you can minimize the content you have to repeat.
As I have an advanced degree and used to teach in universities, I admit to a bias toward the BSN as the starting point for the RN, but the ADN is well accepted, now.
I encourage you to think carefully about what you are going to do, especially as you have small children. A nursing program, whether LPN, ADN or BSN, is not easy to accomplish with small children. It can be done, but you will make many, many sacrifices. You just need to go into it with open eyes!
Good luck! Keep us posted about your decision.
Cheerio!
Elizabeth