Help!!! I need Advice - Page 3

**DeBora4BobbyL** · #21 (**permalink**) 10-04-2006, 11:22 AM

Bar_Bar, it is good to see you! You are the perfect person to respond to this. I just wanted to say hello!

Sueanne · #22 (**permalink**) 10-04-2006, 12:50 PM

bar_bar...So glad to see you back too. You did a wonderful job raising your gkids. Happy your daughter is feeling better and appreciates what you have done.
BuddyBeanieBaby...
This is a different problem since the child does have a loving mother that he lives with.
I would not want to take the three year old and six month to raise at your age. She is not abusing her own children.Your Son is there with them and if the three year old is as bad as you say let him have the job of straightening both of them out he needs to do his part too.

Enjoy your life with your husband you have spent your time raising your own children. They will realize you are right and apologize to you.
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Sueanne

BuddyBeanieBaby · #23 (**permalink**) 10-04-2006, 08:12 PM

I am living my life for me,my kids are all grown up and have to take responsibility for their own lives.No you are right sueanne I would not want to be raising kids at my age and with my health problems.The 3 year old has learned the behavior from his mother.

I did what I had to do to protect my grandson,who lives with his mom,she does allow us to spend time with him which is wonderful of her.My son will never forgive me for reporting the abuse to the police,but I feel that is his problem,I did the right thing and honestly I would do it again in a heartbeat,even if it wasn't my grandchild.

Thank you everyone for your advice and my life is moving forward now.Thank you

**cat lover** · #24 (**permalink**) 10-05-2006, 06:04 AM

Hope you have a good day BuddyBeanieBaby!

BuddyBeanieBaby · #25 (**permalink**) 10-05-2006, 08:04 AM

Thank you cat lover,I am having a wonderful day.I hope everyone is having a fantastic day!!!

**bar_bar** · #26 (**permalink**) 11-01-2006, 08:24 AM

DeBora and Sueanne, Hi and thank you.

BuddyBeanieBaby I am glad things are moving forward for you.
Since the mom is allowing you to see the gbabies that is a plus, and your example toward those your gchild will rub off and who knows maybe one day things will look brighter.
I know that my 7 yr old gd was able to witness to her mother and she turned her live over to the LORD.
It takes step by step, and all you can do is hope and pray if you believe in that. for myself I sure do.

BuddyBeanieBaby · #27 (**permalink**) 11-01-2006, 08:41 PM

My son still does not talk to me,and I feel that is his choice in life.My life has moved forward,and I talked to my grandson tonight and to hear him say,''I love you Grandma",makes it all worth it.
I am staying positive and moving forward,maybe moving a little slower the past couple of weeks but I am doing it.
With all that is going on in my life right now,I really haven't had a whole lot of time to dwell in the past,you ladies are wonderful.Thank you again to everyone who has helped me through this.I hold you all in my heart.

**cat lover** · #28 (**permalink**) 11-02-2006, 03:20 PM

Hang in there! So glad you are moving forward. Have a good day!