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I wish I could say it was wonderful growing up in a large family, but I don't really remember that at any one particular time were we all together. I will say I was a spoiled rotten child and hated sharing my mom with her grandchildren, especially the ones near my age. Some of the older siblings would leave their kids with us for a bit during the summer, and it was fun to have someone my age to play with for a couple of days, but beyond that, they were invading my territory and my summertime with my mom.
It really didn't hit me how big of a family I came from until my Mom's funeral, when several of us had to sit in the side pews with our families. I have a sister that has 7 children, and I don't know how she does it, they are all there every Sunday for supper. That is all her children and their children, one of the girls has 5 children. They all live in the practically the same town or at the most 1/2 hour away. My family was all over the country when I grew up. My oldest sister moved to the same town I live in about 15 years ago, and it has been a wonderful experience getting to know her. She took care of my Mom the last 2 years of her life, pretty much not being able to go anywhere, because Mom didn't want her to go. My oldest dd would help take care of her, and would sit with her so my sister could get out once or twice a week. I went over almost everyday, and I don't think I missed a day the last few months.
My Mom had this wonderful talent of making us feel like we were special, that we were her favorite, so I guess that is how I felt like it wasn't a big family. My Dad was a hard worker and even though we didn't have a lot growing up, we knew that Dad would provide for us and we never went without those things we needed. I never felt like we were poor, except for one brief time, when my friend moved into a brand new home and they had paneled walls and ours were not. I thought only the rich people had panel. Now I have panel, and it is because it is a prefab home. I hate panel! Give me white solid walls! Easier to decorate with...lol.
OK, so far I win the biggest family award, so what's my prize????
Oh all the love from everyone of my family members. Thats a wonderful prize. I haven't always appreciated all of them, but like I told one of my sister's kids once, your friends come and go, but your family is forever. Love them, someday they will become very important to you. This is the sister with 7 kids and they are all there for each other.
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Elaine
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