I have lived in both the city and the country and I prefer the city.
I can't WAIT to visit NYC someday!!!!
However, IF I had children, I would choose the country for the same reasons mom2-4 and littlecmom mention.
I do live in the city, but it is a very small town feeling, not a lot of traffic and the people are friendly overall.
I live close to our downtown and I like that. I go to the coffeehouse, drugstore, library, community theatre, Woolworths, the deli, etc.........
I would go stircrazy, without friends nearby and places to go.......but, again, with children I could see in my mind a totally different path my life would have taken.
Abear, do you miss Houston? I loved living in Dallas, for all there was to do!
Littlecmom, I saw your note back to me on the introduce yourself thread...........I lived closer to Fort Smith.
peace,train