Ok all I have finally decided what I am going to give my friend. I am going to give her: Wipes, footed jamies(size 12 months), sippy cup, and a fork and spoon set. I am also going to attempt to make a quilt for the baby. It will have little boys all over it, looking out windows.
Her shower is at the end of the month so I hope I will have enough time to get it done.
Thanks for all the helpful suggestions.