I don't think so-- I had a maple with it, and it looks a lot different-- more blackish.
You don't have to prune your lilac normally. At least I haven't, but it depends on if you want it "shaped". If you prune right after it blooms it's okay, but NO other time. It will cut off the blooms that are forming for spring. I actually need to prune mine now-- we've lived here 3 years and it's looking a little wild. You can prune about 1/3 off of it to shape it after bloom.