I guess if I was working (let alone opposite hours from DH) I would "find it important to spend time together" as it is that I am not, I do find it enjoyable when we can go out and do stuff together... take a walk at a park and/or zoo, visit the ocean and/or mountains, see a movie (just saw '
Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close' w/Sandra Bullock on Sunday, January 29th, 2012), or in most cases, recently, join a Bowling League that bowls once a week night and doesn't last more than a few hours to bowl - and it must be something fun (offer a: pizza party, ball, and/or scholarship certificate as a prize) that most if not all ages can join in on.