Hi Shell,
One of mine and my hubby's hero's is Dave Ramsey. Because of him, I quit my job (I made more money than my hubby (he made about 20,000 at the time)), bought a house and became debt free in less than two years (including family debts that never get paid off). It's been four years and we are still debt free.

Dave's books are easy to read, quite a statement coming from the "free spirit" side of a marriage. Check out his web site,
http://www.financialpeace.com/ and see if he can help. He is an encourager with finances, not a brute. My hubby

teaches a financial class at church now. We were "morons with money." My hubby tells people that not many people were as good at messing up finances as we were. Now we get to counsil people and we have seen so many become debt free and living within their means and being happy doing it! It's great! I hope you take a peek at the web site. If I can be of any help, lemme know. Budgets are like getting a raise when you make a "real life" budget.
Later Gater!
Dawn
This is my first post and I'm not sure how it all works. So if it looks like I don't know what I'm doing it's because...wel...I don't.
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