A lady at church lent me this book by Barbara Coloroso titled "Kids are Worth It". Giving your child the gift of inner discipline.
On the flap it says:
She examines the difference between encouragement and rewards, discipline and punishment. Parents will learn how to empower and influence their children instead of controlling them and trying to "make them mind", teaching them how to think, not just what to think.
This book has opened my eyes--sometimes my kids make me