What changes would you make about yourself?

**DeBora4BobbyL** · #1 (**permalink**) 06-16-2009, 10:41 AM

What color eyes would you have and what color hair would you have, if you had a choice? What about skin color? Would you be a different race or lighter or darker skin tone? If you could change anything about yourself, what would it be?

Cooked · #2 (**permalink**) 06-16-2009, 10:57 AM

The biggest thing (no pun intended!) I would change is my stomach. When I was pregnant, I had surgery which had an incision from belly button to hair line and it did not heal until she was born 5 months later. This left a huge fat scar and I lost all my stomach muscles. 2 pregnancies later - it is not pretty. I would love to have my flat stomach back!

Pag36 · #3 (**permalink**) 06-19-2009, 10:22 AM

I would love to have flatter stomach don't have any muscles there either and was told that when I was pg with Gina born in 60 and I have had 2 children since then so for sure no muscles to speak of there

KSJEn6891 · #4 (**permalink**) 06-19-2009, 01:51 PM

My stomach - it stretches to my sides

**bar_bar** · #5 (**permalink**) 06-29-2009, 10:48 AM

I'm olive complex so I'm like that, my eyes are hazel which works well, so I don't want to change that any. I like my pug nose..

so will have to go with I would Like to have my flat tire to disappear having the surgeries I have had, the muscles are weak, and flat tire it is.

in due time I want to change my hair coloring in some way, but not sure how. I still got my long hair vs my short hair I used to have. I'm learning how to pin it up which is changing me a little bit..

don't like living alone, as it to quite, but can't really change that for now. it will take time to learn.

wish I did't have to wear glasses but money won't allow me to change to contacts right now, and I think I would lose them if I had them now.

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trainlady · #6 (**permalink**) 07-19-2009, 07:35 PM

Welp, for Mark's sake I would say give me back some of my libido which has totally disapperared since my hysterectomy.
That and a flat tummy would be nice!!!!

hugs, train

**DeBora4BobbyL** · #7 (**permalink**) 07-20-2009, 08:34 AM

Train, I thought hysterectomies made women's libidos better? I guess not for everyone. Don't have patches and medications now to help you in that area?

Cooked · #8 (**permalink**) 07-20-2009, 09:32 AM

Hysterectomies just make it more available, is my opinion. I am 5 months out and a lot has changed. I can certainly understand where you are coming from train, how long ago was yours? Mine was in Feb. they say it takes a good year to be feeling like normal again. No one told me that before going in!

**seleach** · #9 (**permalink**) 07-20-2009, 09:59 AM

I had my hysterectomy when I was 26. 42 yrs ago. I know where Train is coming from.
It never made my libido better. It just keeps you from worrying about getting pg.

I would like my flat stomach back too. I also would like to be a little taller. I'm 4'11".

**bluebird** · #10 (**permalink**) 07-20-2009, 02:13 PM

I agree! It has been ten years since my hysterectomy and the libido isn't great.

I would love to have darker skin. Brown eyes would be cool too. I am working on the flat stomach along with losing weight. I would like to calm down more. I am working on that too.