[bluebird]

I am working on forgiving my sister. I called her last winter and she kept repeating a certain teenager phase so I hung up. I saw her today, she is still mad. Guess she will need to live with it. If she is angry about dad's will she can come ask me questions about it. Act like a grown up. Since she won't do that, I am ok with cutting ties with her. I have got to the point I don't care what she thinks, or my inlaws or my dad. Life is too short to play the games they play. If you want to talk to me then talk to me. Don't hide around the corner hoping to catch me as I leave the building. I do not go out of my way to see these people but I don't go out of my way to see them either. I am okay with them being angry at me. In fact I don't care.

As for a chip on the shoulder nope don't have one. In fact my daughter has told me I am too perky at times. I have learned when beating my head against a brick wall, STOP. Think. If I can't figure out a different way to do something, then I do nothing about it. It is very frustrating at times but life is much easier.