Kathy -- It is funny that you started this thread, because my dh just got diagnosed with gallstones yesterday. He has not had any real pain, just long-standing heartburn that was being treated for years with medication. Finally, his doc decided to give him an ultrasound to see what else may be giving him the symptoms. He is scheduled to have the surgery (outpatient) in a few weeks (since he has a few important business trips that he can't miss). We discussed it with his doctor, and it sounds like there really isn't any other treatment for chronic gallstones other than surgery.
We'll be sending all sorts of good wishes your way!!