Anna, if you haven't returned the Bee Balm yet, maybe you can plant it in a container and keep it. It can't invade anything if you keep it in a pot, off the ground a bit.
Frugal today was sharing with a neighbor. I gave her a container of the Chicken Fajita Soup I made the other night, since I had a lot of it and she likes it, and she had bought a bunch of melon and made a big fruit salad, so she gave me a container of that. Definitely a win-win
I don't usually buy Frito-Lay products since my neighbor's DH works for Utz, but Pepsi was on sale 5 cases for $10 at Shop Rite AND they gave you a 22-pack of little chip bags free with that. It was a great deal all around. I told the kids that the chips are for school lunch and that's that. Then I hid the pack of chips.

I will take them out when I pack lunches--only 6 more days until they are back to school