[Txchef_fran]

except we would have to live off my check as we cna not even close live off his. Amazing how I bring home double what he does and he spends double.

Right now we have a financail advisor who pays al of our bills and we have no access to anything so I guess we will keep that arrangement as it has worked the best so far. The only thing with that is we have NO fun money and that gets old too.

We communicate but there is no happy medium as no matter what I say I am the bad guy and he is just living life.

I have suggested couseling for this adn he doens't think there is a problem. Our pastor even told us if we were going to fight about anything to NOT figh tabout money..It is the root of all evil and it is truley evil trying to break at our marriage.