[DeBora4BobbyL]

I am not sure what to do with my surviving 8 year old chihuahua who is grieving the death of his 13 1/2 year old uncle. Jet-Bo became violently ill about a week ago and we put him to sleep on Tuesday, 5 days ago. Poncho, his nephew just mops around and he will not eat. I have been giving him treats, which he will take, but it isn't good for him. Today I decided to stop giving him the treats, with the exception of when I have to give him his anti-biotics so that maybe he will get hungry enough to eat. The second problem is that Poncho is a daddy's boy and daddy works 3 1/2 hours away and can only come visit every so often. He plans on coming in tonight. I hope that will improve Poncho's spirits.

I have read that if the surviving animal never sees the deceased pet, there is an uncertainty. Jet-Bo will be cremated and is in the freezer at the Vet's office. I am wondering if I should call the Vet and see if Poncho can see Jet-Bo for closure or what else I can do to help him. It is totally crushing me to see Poncho like this. I know he is hurting emotionally. The only thing I have been able to do it hold him, kiss him, pet him, and give him treats. I don't know anything about animal psychology, but with humans, the best thing is to get them to exercise to get their autonomic nervous systems working to release "feel good" chemicals.

I basically need ideas on what to do. I have never lost a pet that I loved as much as this pet. Poncho is a follower and he would never go outside and potty unless Jet-Bo would go with him. He would also wait until Jet-Bo ate to eat himself. I don't know if this means anything or not. I'd appreciate any advice.