train lady,
I too was looking for some way to prioritize my life when I stumbled upon a website. Here's the address:
http://www.FlyLady.net
She makes it soooo... simple. You can join her Yahoo group and get daily reminders of what you should be concentrating on. Be warned...there are a lot of daily emails, but she tells you herself to simply delete any or all of them.
It does work. By the way...Fly stands for finally loving yourself. Check it out. It helpled me.