Sandie, what a horrible thing to have happen to your neighbor
You can get a lot more hurt on a bike than most people think! My father used to ride to work in traffic, and has had many close calls and several injuries. He's even hit his head on a metal guard rail....ouch...the helmet saved him that time for sure. Your neighbor's wife is lucky to have friends like you
Train, it's good to hear from you
and I'm glad the new job is going well!