I had a total HYST. in 1987. never felt better. i was up and out of bed within 24 hours after surgery. i took the drugs, i am a nurse, so i knew what was going to happen. they removed a tumor that weighed 12 lbs. it wasn't cancerous, thank god. I think you have to be mentally ready also, i didn't want any more children, had 5 so, i did my duty. i have tried hormones but they just make me sick and they will make you gain weight. now with all the reports coming out about them i am glad i never could take them. i take a natural supplement. it is called" CHANGE-OF-LIFE, made by natures way. you can find them in health food stores. just don't push yourself, take it easy and relax. you may feel mentally happy but the body is going to tell you different. there really isn't much blood. i think the recoperation from this was faster than giving birth. hope all will go right for you, i'll be praying for you.