Yeah, she is four years older and drives me nuts! When our kids play together hers (5yrs old) is snotty and back talky, and tattle telling, and she does not share... yet somehow my 3yr old gets in trouble for everything... becuase, right, my little girl could figure out how to climb up into the closet on her own
if she hits my daughter, then "it was provoked" if Emmy pinches then she is "just being mean" whatever. i know that they are both at fault in many situations, but I am sick of her getting blamed for EVERYTHING. ANd the worst part is, she gets frustrated because she is telling the truth and still getting yelled at !
My sister is that irritating person who walks around Target squeezing a little out of each lotion bottle to "test" it, puts things back wherever she happens to be when she decides she doesn't actually need it, and has (on several occassions) ripped opened packages of things like socks to hold them up and see if they look like the right size, then sticks them back in the package and grabs another one saying "I'm not buying that one, it's been ripped open." She makes me crazy.
If we go to the mall (anywhere actually, but I need an example!) she will quite loudly say each and every judgemental thought about people that crosses her mind. "Why is that hot guy with such an ugly girl?" "OMG! Why does she think she can wear that shirt outside the house? She looks like a baby whale!" "Did you see how droopy that lady's boobs were?" She also will steal things from my house and just refuse to admit it. Hello, I have been in her house too, I can see my things out on display on her shelves, or on her body... she has given away my bike to a friend before. She just does not seem to get the fact that her actions effect the people around her.
I am getting pretty sick of putting things away on the correct shelf after she walks away, and smiling politely at people as we walk past with my best "excuse my sister, she is unbalanced and I am not at all in agreement about your boobs" smile.