Barz and others that has asked this same question....
think about it for a moment, and you will understand why not, but to help your little brains as with kids, and a thousands things, and being summer our minds aren't always plug in.
don't think My brains is ever. and they are in my big toe.
If I took part in this I would know who my secret sister is.
so I wanted Tami to go first, so at the last minute she sign up as she wanted me to go first.... but I wanted to set back and watch this to bloom....

then next month I will take part and she will set back and watch it bloom.
this way we will not know who our secret sisters are...
this is the way we feel it fair and not take that fun of not knowing who our secret sister is.
like a christmas gift.... the giver has more fun giving than receiving.
thanks to all that is concern about me....