It'sgreat not to feel unfited - thinking we are the only ones with looks problems. There is one thing that made me feel releaved: I thought I was the only one who wouldnt take a morning shower every day - I really felt ashamed by it

! I do feel I'm not alone there!
I'm kinda overweight,

but I'm trying to make some lemonade with the lemons I have - lol

- and bought some pretty clothes to fit my actual size. Also cuted my hair short - when one's never in the mood to make an effort to make oneself look nice, that is the right solution. And that raised another problem : have to play atention tho my upper lip shadow, have to wax it more often. But I do look sharper with almost no effort.;-)
I'm so glad you created this thread, Amanda! It's so great to talk to people who experience the same difficulties!
Keep up the good work!!
Fatima
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love,
fatima
"Stones in my path, I pick them all up: one day, I'm going to build a castle!" - Fernando Pessoa,
(portuguese poet)