I am sooooooooo hearing you. I have been married for 6 years (together for 11 years) and I got myself into a "comfy" mode. I got a real wake up call this past Jan when he decided to leave. I had the usual feelings of loss, devestation, abandonment, blah, blah, blah. Then I looked at myself in the mirror and realized how "comfy" I had really become. Weight gain was the worst!!! And because of the weight gain my entire wardrobe consisted of cargo pants, shorts and T-shirts. Make up was only applied when I went out for an evening, which was almost never. And the hair.....well, let's just say the hair leaves alot to be desired!!!
I am making some changes to my daily routine because of this wake up call. Some of the changes include weight watchers, a daily shower routine, that doesn't seem like a huge deal but when you add to kids under the ages of 4, a simple shower can turn into a two hour event/ordeal. I have also joined a gym. THe only problem I seem to have with the gym is actually getting there.
Keep me up to date on things, and I will do the same.
Katie