I am in the same boat. I spent the last four years having babies. I Had nothing but oversized shirts and sweatpants. I used to spend an hour on my hair and make up, but now I just don't do anything unless we go somewhere and then I just shower, put on some makeup and airdry my hair. I finally went clothes shopping ( never have been a shopper) for the first time in 4 or five years. I hated P.E. in school but now I force myself to do a workout tape, or weights, I try to do this 5 days a week. When I was pregnant I felt crummy so I never wanted to leave the house, and I'm trying to get out more now............. I've always been a homebody. It's hard to change but if we keep trying, we'll get there eventually.