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Make Saving Fun for Your Child
We all set out with the very best of
intentions every year to "start saving more." But something always come up;
something we didn't expect. It might be a refrigerator that needs to be replaced,
a transmission problem, or a hike in tuition for your kids. Many millionaires,
in sharing the secrets of their wealth, say that they paid themselves first.
Hmm. Well, what about things that come up? I would say that the secret is
in having the reserve you need for those occasions, meaning just what the
millionaires say. Pay yourself first, and teach your children to do the
same.
How can you make a child want to save his money? Make it fun and
gratifying! Here are several ways to do so:
1. Find just the right "piggy" bank, and let him help you pick it
out. There are some really cute ones that have internal machines that pull
the money in or make a "cha ching" sound when the money disappears. And others
fit a theme that children like; for example, a beloved cartoon character.
2. When your child receives a sum of money, offer to match the amount
he saves, or increase the match incrementally by the percentage of the total
that he is willing to save. In other words, say your son gets five dollars
for bringing in a neighbor's garbage cans while they're out of town. If he
saves a dollar, you'll match him a dollar. If he save $2.00, you'll match
him $1.50. If he saves the whole thing, you'll give him half again or $2.50.
Obviously, this can't be a permanent arrangement, but it might be fun to
do this periodically if you're trying to teach a lesson. Children often have
a hard time conceptualizing where the money goes when he's saving it. It
seems lost, or as if he'll never see it again. Making it appealing or gratifying
will help!
3. Let your child be the one to complete the transaction at the bank.
Stand behind your child in the bank, and allow him to go up and speak to
the teller. Depending on the age of your child, this may not be a big deal;
perhaps he's already doing this. If not, what a way to let him do a "grown-up"
thing!
4. If family members wish to give gifts of money, but your child is
stubborn about saving, you might encourage those family members to give savings
bonds as gifts instead. Your child won't really understand much about it
now, but later on the gift will mean something and have more value, both
financially and sentimentally.
Most importantly, your child doesn't need to know your net worth, but he
will most certainly benefit from hearing your candid discussions on the topic.
Perhaps you might show your appreciation of a great deal you see advertised,
or tell him about a bargain you got recently. Let him know how much you saved,
and how those savings will benefit you down the road! Just don't be afraid
to talk about money - your children will thank you later.
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About The Author
Mia Cronan is a married full-time
mother of three girls, ages 4, 3, and 1, living in Pennsylvania. She owns
and edits www.MainStreetMom.com,
the magazine for modern mothers with traditional values. Mia can be reached
at cronan@a1usa.net.
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