Get Your Child Ready for a Successful School Year
by Dr. Raymond J. and Eileen Huntington
For many students, going back to school
is an exciting occasion a chance to make new friends, embark on new
extra-curricular activities and take on new responsibilities. For all students including
those who may have struggled through the last semester its also
a chance for a fresh start toward academic success. As the most important "coaches" in
our childrens race to achieve, there are three key steps we can take
to prepare them for the journey ahead.
Step One: Create a Learning Space
Studying is hard work, even more so amid the myriad distractions
of television, technology and other factors that may get your child off-track.
Establishing a quiet, neat, well-lit space for studying will help your child
focus on homework, and significantly enhance his or her ability to retain material.
Be sure to have materials such as paper, pencils and pens, a dictionary, a
thesaurus and a calculator readily at hand. The seating area should be moderately
comfortable with a straight-backed chair that will keep your child relaxed
but alert as opposed to soft upholstery, which can encourage drowsiness. Its
also a good idea to have enough space to read and write in the same area.
Step Two: Establish a Learning Schedule
The beginning of the school year is also a good time to set parameters that
balance study time and leisure time. Setting aside a designated period of time
after school or in the early evening that is to be used only for schoolwork
is a strategy that has been proven effective for countless students over the
years. There are several factors that can influence the decision about which
time is best. One of the most important relates to your childs rising
and falling energy levels. Some children, for example, may complete homework
more successfully by beginning immediately after school, leaving the rest of
the late afternoon and evening for other activities. Others may need time to "wind
down" after being in school all day before theyre relaxed and focused
enough to complete homework successfully.
Another factor is your childs schedule
of extracurricular and athletic activities. Keeping in mind the significant
amount of study time most children
need to make good grades, take a look at all of the other activities that your
child wants to fit into his or her day. Have a frank discussion to determine
which activities are most important to your child, and see if you can arrive
collaboratively at a decision about which should be pursued. Then see if you
can also determine, together, the best time to be set aside for studying in
the midst of these activities. While its important
to set and maintain a schedule throughout the year, most high- achieving
students also plan ahead to ensure they have enough flexibility to fit in
extra effort that may be needed during high-pressure periods, such as the
approach of mid-term and final exams.
Step Three: Set the Stage for Effective Parent-Teacher
Communication
The beginning of the school year also marks a fresh
opportunity for parents to establish the foundation for an ongoing, effective
dialogue with teachers,
guidance counselors and other school professionals. Begin by either going to
the school to introduce yourself, or calling or writing a note. Speak forthrightly
about your childs particular strengths and interests, and areas in which
he or she may need extra help. Ask about milestones such as major tests for
the coming year. Find out how you will be kept informed of your childs
progress. Are there other vehicles and mechanisms aside from report cards that
can help you find out if your child is struggling so that you can take positive
steps for improvement?
The first parent-teacher meeting can also be a good opportunity to find
out how you can best support your childs school. Ask about meetings and
activities of special parent groups such as the PTA. Find out if there are
upcoming field trips or other extracurricular activities that require adult
volunteers.
Finally, make sure the teacher knows to get in touch with you. Communication
will be much easier if the teacher knows your name, has your phone number and
email address, and is aware of the best time to reach you during the day and
evening. By establishing the right environment at home and a strong, positive
connection to whats happening at school, you can give your child a head
start that will drive success all year long.
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About the Author
Raymond and Eileen Huntington are the founders of Huntington Learning Center, the oldest supplemental education provider nationwide. They opened their first Huntington Learning Center in Oradell, NJ in 1977. Since then, Huntington Learning Centers have grown to over 200 company-owned and franchised facilities nationwide. In their 25th year of business, the Huntington’s have seen thousands of student success stories. Ray and Eileen measure that success not only by improved school performance but by also increased confidence, attention, motivation and better relationships with parents and teachers.
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