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Tying Ribbons Around The Moon
by Christine Woodley
One weekday afternoon when my older
son was four, he was flopped on his bed, sprawled on his back looking out
the window upside down.
He started talking about the moon and
the sun and how he'd like to tie one of them with a string, or some such
whimsical idea.
The point here is not what he said,
but that he had the unfettered, unstructured opportunity to say it. It was
downtime, daydreaming hour, or any other name you'd like to hang on it. It
is also one of the best reasons I stay home with my kids.
The other day a friend and I were having
a friendly discussion (via e-mail) about daycare vs. kids who stay home with
mom. She works full-time and was asserting that her kids are involved in
more "kid-centered" activities more of the time, instead of being hauled
off to the supermarket or gas station with mom.
Well, there's some merit in that, but
there's also value in those everyday things I do with my 3 year old (the
younger one now) in tow. And, there's also that delicious downtime
that he enjoys...when he lays on his back and dreams of tying ribbons around
the moon.
I wouldn't trade him that opportunity
for anything. I'd rather he dream about the moon, than have me working full-time
to try and buy it for him.
That's my 2 cents, and I know being
home isn't for everyone, but for me it's worth everything.
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About the Author:
This article contributed by
stay-at-home-mom, Christine Woodley.
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